Finally guys, my parcel arrived on the 25th midnight in Amsterdam. It took the customs 8 days to release it. Its planned to be delivered on upcoming Monday (7th).

Everybody thanks for sharing your story. It was a horrible experience. Paid about 100 euros for a 3kg parcel. Didnt know it would take them a month. Besides, they charge me 100 euros clearance fee (Welcome to the NL).

To give the other Dutch community a over iew when they can expect their package:
Day shipped: 9 october (Beijing)
Day arrived NL: 25 october (A'dam)
ETA: 7 november

Again a big thanks to Int077 and the rest. You all were awesome!